{"id":1746,"date":"2013-11-27T21:13:25","date_gmt":"2013-11-28T03:13:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/torahnetwork.org\/wp\/?p=1746"},"modified":"2013-11-27T21:19:40","modified_gmt":"2013-11-28T03:19:40","slug":"november-1-2013-28-mar-cheshvan-5774-this-weeks-torah-reading-toledos-genesis-2519-289","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/torahnetwork.org\/wp\/?p=1746","title":{"rendered":"NOVEMBER 1, 2013 \/ 28 MAR CHESHVAN 5774 &#8211; THIS WEEK&#8217;S TORAH READING: TOLEDOS (GENESIS 25:19 &#8211; 28:9)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. AND ESAU SAID, I AM GOING TO DIE \u2026  (25:32)<\/p>\n<p>Isaac and Rebecca are married and have no children.<br \/>\nFinally, Rebecca gives birth to twins. Esau and Jacob.<br \/>\nAs the older brother, Esau had the &#8220;birthright&#8221;.<!--more--><br \/>\nThe spiritual leadership of the family.<br \/>\nEsau agrees to sell the birthright to Jacob for a bowl of stew!<br \/>\n&#8220;Give me some of that red stuff. I\u2019m starving \u2026<br \/>\nLook, I\u2019m going to die. So what good is the birthright&#8221;?<br \/>\nIn the words of the Torah?  &#8220;Esau despised the birthright.&#8221;<br \/>\nAnd in Jewish tradition he represents giving up eternity for the pleasure of the moment.<br \/>\n\u2026 It\u2019s not only about Esau\u2019s approach to life.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s also how he responds to his mortality.<br \/>\n&#8220;Look, I\u2019m going to die. So what good is the birthright&#8221;?<br \/>\nThat\u2019s one way we can relate to our mortality.<br \/>\n&#8220;Eat drink and be merry. For tomorrow, we die&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026 A fellow comes to a meeting with his accountant.<br \/>\nDriving the latest model luxury car.  Completely loaded.<br \/>\nHis accountant is very surprised.  To say the least.<br \/>\n\u201cI do his books.  There is no way he can afford this car.\u201d<br \/>\nThe client notices the look on the accountant\u2019s face.  \u201cI\u2019ll explain.<br \/>\nA few weeks ago I was in a house.<br \/>\nAnd just minutes after I left, there was a terrible explosion.  A gas leak.<br \/>\nIt was a miracle that I didn\u2019t get killed.<br \/>\nAnd you know?<br \/>\nIt\u2019s times like that, that get you thinking.<br \/>\nYou don\u2019t live forever.<br \/>\n&#8230; Enjoy life while you can \u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2026 Jewish tradition wants us to look at it differently.<br \/>\nAnyone who was a student knows how it is.<br \/>\nWhen do you study for a final?<br \/>\nThe day before the test!<br \/>\nIf we lived forever?<br \/>\nWe would never accomplish anything!<br \/>\nSo Jewish tradition doesn\u2019t want us to be obsessed with our mortality.<br \/>\nBut it\u2019s good to remind ourselves once in a while.<br \/>\n\u2026  You don\u2019t live forever.<br \/>\nYou need to make your life meaningful while you can.<br \/>\nA Mitzvah.  Helping someone in need.   Studying Torah.<br \/>\nMaking someone smile.  Being there for a friend.<br \/>\nBecause these are things that are eternal.<\/p>\n<p>2. ISAAC LOVED ESAU BECAUSE &#8230; AND REBECCA LOVES JACOB \u2026 (25:28)<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one of the most famous Torah stories.  One that decides the future of the Jewish People.<br \/>\nIsaac and Rebecca see their children differently.  And the stakes are very high.<br \/>\n\u2026 Rebecca loves Jacob.  Sees him as the spiritual future of the Jewish People.<br \/>\nBut Isaac loves Esau.   And thinks that he can be the Jewish future.<br \/>\nIsaac is about to \u201cpass the mantle\u201d to Esau.<br \/>\nBut Rebecca rises to the occasion.  And takes bold steps to turn things around.<br \/>\nAnd Jewish tradition is very clear.  She was right.<br \/>\nRebecca understood what Isaac did not.  And her intervention saved the Jewish People.<br \/>\n\u2026 But there\u2019s something else that\u2019s very interesting about our tradition.<br \/>\nFor the last 3000 years the name Rebecca has brought something else to mind.<br \/>\nSomething we read about in last week\u2019s portion.  Something the Torah described in great length.<br \/>\n\u2026 Rebecca has always been a symbol of _chessed_.  Of doing great acts of kindness.<br \/>\nYes.  It\u2019s true that Rebecca saved the Jewish People.<br \/>\nBut she did something else which may be even more important.<br \/>\n\u2026 She taught us the kind of People we\u2019re meant to be!<br \/>\nHopefully, we\u2019ll never have to face a situation where we are called upon to save the Jewish People.<br \/>\n\u2026 But we\u2019re constantly given opportunities for acts of kindness.<br \/>\nAnd we know how it is.  Sometimes we\u2019re too busy.  Too tired.  Or just \u201chaving one of those days\u201d.<br \/>\nWe should be inspired by Rebecca\u2019s example.<br \/>\nAnd rise to the occasion.<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. 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